Kitty Lea: Naughty Night In!

Sex outdoors

Why I love it: it’s the risk factor, isn’t it? The fact you could be caught at any moment with your undies down always makes me feel really naughty. I once had sex on top of a church roof which was awesome and did it in a tent at a festival just a few weeks ago.

How to convince the missus: suggest something mild to ease her into it. Try leaving the curtains open at home with the lights on. If your first session goes well, she’ll get the bug and want to do it in more dangerous places.

Fancy dress

Why I love it: I’ve got lots of little bondage outfits. They make you feel naughty and dirty without even doing anything! Just wearing
them heightens the horn, so to speak.

How to convince the missus: take her shopping! If you’re too embarrassed to go into Ann Summers and sex shops, lingerie shops like La Senza have some amazing and cute outfits. If you open your wallet, I’m sure she’ll be willing to try something for you.

Threesomes

Why I love it: I’ve had a load of these in my wild days, always with a girl and a guy. I think everyone should try it once. The trick is to make sure you pick the right people to do it with, you share your attention between everyone and discuss boundaries beforehand. You know, like if you’re allowed to kiss on the mouth, where you are going to have your happy ending…

How To Convince The Missus: some girls are really up for it, some girls you’ve got no chance with. Talk to your lady and see how she’d feel about sharing you with someone else. Maybe she’s up for an experience with a woman and you could just watch? Just don’t make her jealous or she’ll think she’s not enough for you.